Why?
From my current perspective, the perspective of a new, cosy home, I feel that a main problem was located in a mess related with my house. As I mentioned in my previous post I had some "issue" with old house, its owner turned out to be a greatest d.ck I have ever met. Anyway, now I can say he made me a favour! Even more- as a person full of empathy and love in my heart I am saying a big thanks to Mr. Landlord:)
A title of tonight's post says a lots itself. I am sure you are aware of a physical dirt and mess at your home and how strongly it influences on you. But have you ever thought of all these unspoken problems, demons hidden in your wardrobes, fear covered with tones of unused items, all your negative attitudes towards yourself gently held in the corners of rooms?
Moving house is a perfect occasion to face all above with a superiority. You are a master of ceremony, you choose what is important to you, what is no longer needed, what you can or can't live with. This is a great chance to break with your past, to release all blockages, in your head especially, and start once again. That's what I did 2 weeks ago. Fortunately I could keep all my favourite things, because the new house came totally unfurnished!
Now, think of your mind.
Older we are more "furniture & decorations" we have. Some are very important, they are good and positive- our memories, people, faces, places, books, music, views. As long as they don't have negative impact on you- keep them all. But don't forget, every house, even the biggest one, has some limitations. You can't putting in new stuff all the time. One day you will be not able to close a door, your head will explode! You will wake up with terrible head ache, in bad mood, feeling down, depressive, ready for fight with yourself and others... What for? Mind your inner home before the worst is going to happen. As often as you clean your house, clean your mind & soul.Find time for yourself only.
It's not an act of selfishness- it is the highest form of care. Spend some time with you, feel your body, look at yourself, touch yourself, be kind, open and full of positive attitudes. Talk to yourself, say "hello beauty, you're doing fantastic job! Looking good, don't give up", smile- this is simple exercise for your face! Celebrate minutes with you only, go for a walk. Listen to your favourite music, read inspiring book, observe other people... Be in touch with nature, with you. Meet you as someone else, ask yourself questions, answer them. Don't be afraid, all you can find out is truth!
Throw out from your head all unnecessary items- unused, no longer actual, all negatives. Find a light deep, deep in your heart, make a space for new, beautiful and useful thoughts.
What concerns home interior- well, the rules are exactly the same. Try to create clean, bright, fresh and pleasant space for you. You are the boss, even if your best friend doesn't like it, who cares?! She has a right to have different opinion, as you do. It doesn't mean that either of you is wrong. Your home is your castle, remember. Play with colours, smells, light...Sooo many options, small accents make huge difference! Motivational canvas, pictures of you and your family & friends, place you have already visited and you want to go. Create something what makes you proud and happy. It's up to you, my dear.
Find that inner courage and live your life, not someone's else.
This weekend I am sure I won't go down with my feelings and thoughts. No more!
I live in perfect home, that gives me comfort, peace, great energy and feeling that I can win the world.
Hope you feel the same or you will feel it soon. Work on your dreams. No one will do it for you, instead of you. This is your job to create your own, unique world.
Good luck,
Kasia ♥
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